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Dare To Work On The Shame Blocking Your Vulnerability

Vulnerability is a strength – not a weakness. You need to dare greatly in order to work through your shame and emotional pain to clear out that shame from your past and let in the empowering freedom and wholeheartedness of

A.J. Mahari June 25, 2015June 25, 2015 Emotion Regulation, Letting Go Of The Past, Life Skills, Mental Health, Personal Development, Recovery, Self understanding, Sexual Abuse Recovery, Unresolved Childhood Read more

A.J Mahari on Video On BPD for Those with Borderline Personality Disorder

A.J. Mahari, author, life coach and strategist, on video talking about the issues and challenges that those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder face. Mahari stresses that recovery is possible and that there is hope for recovery.

A.J. Mahari September 17, 2008 BPD General No Comments Read more

Lack of Object Constancy In BPD

Lack of object constancy in Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of borderline abandonment trauma and repeated relationship rupture.

A.J. Mahari June 24, 2008 Personal Development 1 Comment Read more

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