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An adult-child of a Borderline Mother speaks about rage

Borderline Personality Disorder in a mother has significant, lasting, and impacting effects on her children. The effects of those who are now the adult children of a borderline mother seriously impact their relationships throughout childhood and into adulthood.

A.J. Mahari November 9, 2008 Adult Children of Borderlines No Comments Read more

Borderline Personality Disorder and Unrealistic Expectations

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), regardless of what is thought to cause it, manifests as a relational disorder. Those with BPD often have unrealistic expectations. This disorder of relating is largely driven by distorted thoughts and unrealistic expectations.

A.J. Mahari July 7, 2008 BPD General No Comments Read more

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