The Borderline *Set Up* Hoover The Borderline set up hoover is unlike any other type or generic “average” hoover. The Borderline set up hoover is one that is your BPD Ex plotting to punish you (especially the female borderline vs
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of the Approach Avoidance Conflict in BPD – It’s the push-pull “get-away closer” that cannot and will not ever change until and unless each
