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A.J. Mahari on Emotional Mastery

A.J. Mahari, author, Life/BPD/Emotional Mastery Coach educates on the subject of emotional mastery in general, specifically related to those with Borderline Personality Disorder and their loved ones – non borderlines as well as her Emotional Mastery Life Coaching.

A.J. Mahari January 8, 2010 BPD General, Non Borderline No Comments Read more

Hope For Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder

There is so much hope for recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Author, BPD Coach and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about the reality of this hope for recovery from BPD in her latest audio Hope for Recovery From BPD in which she also shares some her experience in her own recovery from BPD 14 years ago.

A.J. Mahari September 23, 2009 Personal Development No Comments Read more

Borderline Personality Disorder and Rage

Borderline Personality Disorder has at its centre tremendous pain that is protected against through many defense mechanisms that manifest themselves through anger and rage. Author, speaker, and life coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about the main reasons for the anger and rage in and of BPD.

A.J. Mahari June 21, 2009 BPD General No Comments Read more

Is Borderline Behaviour Due To The “Illness” of Borderline Personality – The Brain Disorder?

Is borderline behaviour due to the “illness” of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Is it caused by the brain? Whose responsibility does this way of thinking make it? What happens to the concept of personal responsibility?

A.J. Mahari July 7, 2008October 4, 2016 BPD General No Comments Read more

Borderline – Non Borderline Common Ground

Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and their family members, relationship partners – non borderlines – have intersecting reality where common ground is encountered. This common ground, however, is not experienced in the same way by the borderline and the non borderline.

A.J. Mahari July 6, 2008 Personal Development No Comments Read more

Splitting and The Non Borderline Experience of BPD

Splitting is a primitive defense mechanism that borderlines routinely enact when they are triggered by events/emotions in the here and now that threaten their feeling anything to do with their original core wound of abandonment and the intrapsychic trauma associated with that abandonment.

A.J. Mahari June 26, 2008 Personal Development 2 Comments Read more

Lack of Object Constancy In BPD

Lack of object constancy in Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of borderline abandonment trauma and repeated relationship rupture.

A.J. Mahari June 24, 2008 Personal Development 1 Comment Read more

Can Non Borderlines Learn To Speak The Emotional Language of Those With BPD? – Nons

Would a Non Borderline communicating his/her boundaries to a borderline (even he or she could) by attempting to speak the emotional language of the borderline be more successful?

A.J. Mahari June 23, 2008 Personal Development No Comments Read more

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