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setting boundaries increases borderline chaos drama and punishment

Boundary-Setting With Borderlines Increases Chaos, Drama and Punishment

Why do many with Borderline Personality increase chaos & drama when you set a boundary or are firm with a boundary or boundaries? Why is it so difficult to set and maintain a boundary or boundaries with someone with BPD?

A.J. Mahari February 15, 2019July 16, 2019 Borderline Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders No Comments Read more

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