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Connect To Self – Codependency Recovery

Codependency has its roots in childhood. It is deep. It is painful. It is an unhealthy relational pattern. Codependency is to varying degrees is a loss of self, a lack of self love, in childhood, emotionally. In response to adverse

A.J. Mahari September 30, 2020 Codependence No Comments Read more

Borderline Entitlement | Internal Split Projected Out

Borderline Entitlement Internal Original Split Projected Out leaves so many feeling blamed and shamed by someone with BPD in their lives as if how the person with BPD abused and/or manipulate you is how you treated them. People with Borderline

A.J. Mahari November 22, 2019 Personal Development No Comments Read more

Unresolved Abandonment and Negative Expectations – Break Free

Life Coach and author, A.J. Mahari, has many coaching clients who are dealing with varying degrees of consequences, in their own individual lives and life situations, that are all related to unresolved abandonment issues. Does everyone who has unresolved abandonment

A.J. Mahari July 31, 2010October 4, 2016 Abandonment, Unresolved Childhood Read more

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  • Reactive Abuse in BPD Partners and Exes
  • Misunderstanding BPD Intensity as Love
  • BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The Bandage
  • Borderline Induced Conversations – When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents
  • Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception
  • The Invisible Borderline Man – Why Women Don’t See Him Coming
  • Borderline Man Unmasked
  • The Broken BPD Man Fantasy
  • Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Destroys Relationships
  • BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale
  • Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles
  • BPD Frustration Intolerance
  • 7 ‘Codependency Doesn’t Exist’ Myths Debunked
  • BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are *Unseen* – BPD “Bad Object” Emotional Mug Shot of You
  • The BPD Love Paradox

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