You meet her, the woman with Borderline Personality, she is amazing, things happen quickly. Sex and relating are intense. The Borderline hypersexual woman. Everything is just so great to the point of what comes next, in time, that it you horrifically realize this was too good to be true. Then the pain and agony. The cognitive dissonance and the withdrawal of the addiction from the trauma bond. Confusion. Heartache. Longing to get the BPD Ex back even though as a Codependent you need to learn that where there is abuse, there is no love.