The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is experienced by anyone close to a person with Borderline Personality. Especially BPD partners, on/off recycling relationships, BPD Hoovers or your reverse hoovers. What does the Borderline Red Herring Fallacy have to do with Codependents?
Borderline and Codependent Denial – The BPD “We” & The Codependent “They”
Borderlines and Codependents both have considerable denial. It’s not manifested in each groups lives the exact same way yet it underpins a lot of this most unhealthy bond. Online Borderlines often use “we” when they share their narrative (often not
BPD Discard – Is This It a Final Discard?
Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend with suspected or diagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder? Have you been ghosted and/or discarded? Is it a final discard? How can you now? Listen to “BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go
Malignant Borderline “10 Signs” of Supposed BPD/ASPD Co-Morbidity
The words “Malignant Borderline” don’t have any meaning or specific context and absolutely no clinic reference whatsoever yet a therapist out there used them and also called people with BPD “monsters” – Great “professional” look eh? People with BPD may
The Suicide Tunnel – BPD & Suicidality
The Suicide Tunnel – Applies to BPD Suicidality Too Feeling Suicidal Right Now? Read This First
Borderline Forever Ammunition & Codependent Repetition Compulsions in Trauma Bonds
What is Borderline Forever Ammunition? It wounds and it is abuse. Toxic Relationships that are Trauma Bonds. Codependent Repetition Compulsions keep you in the double bind no-win trap of self-abandonment. Borderline Forever Ammunition is especially true for untreated borderlines. Codependent
BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start – The Unconscious Set Up
BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start The Unconscious Set Up is in play from the very beginning o BPD Relationships as they begin and start to end based on the core wound in childhood. Unbeknownst to untreated people
3 Stages in Relationship With People with Borderline Personality
There are 3 stages to BPD Relationship that pw/BPD and Codependents are not conscious of when these relationships start. If you are new to figuring out what’s going on or still trying to get over the BPD Ex and needing
BPD Relationships Hypersexuality of BPD Women is The Trap of Sex Addiction In the Trauma Bond For Men
You meet her, the woman with Borderline Personality, she is amazing, things happen quickly. Sex and relating are intense. The Borderline hypersexual woman. Everything is just so great to the point of what comes next, in time, that it you
Hypersexual Borderline Women – What Men Need to Know Part 2
Borderline Women and Hypersexuality – What Men Need to Know Part 2 Hypersexuality in women with Borderline Personality Disorder is correlated to sexual abuse trauma in childhood. It is the symptomology of this trauma. Not all women with BPD are
Hypersexuality in BPD Women Part of The Who You Thought She Was Trauma Bond | Part 3
Hypersexuality in BPD Women Part of The Who You Thought She Was Trauma Bond Part 3 The intensity and hypersexuality of the untreated Borderline woman is only another part of the who-you-thought-she-was trauma bond. It Codependency Recovery after a BPD
BPD ABUSE – Borderline Externalized Aggression
Not all with BPD are the same. Some will never be violent. A smaller percentage of both Men with BPD and women with BPD can be violent physically. Male and Female Borderlines Abuse in many ways. What has been your
Borderline Forever Ammunition Codependent Repetition Compulsions Trauma Bonds
Borderline Forever Ammunition Codependent Repetition Compulsions Trauma Bonds What is Borderline Forever Ammunition? It wounds and it is abuse. The Trauma Bond. Codependent Repetition Compulsions keep you in the double bind no-win trap of self-abandonment. Borderline Forever Ammunition is especially
Borderline Personality – The Hidden Abuse of Non Borderlines
Borderline Personality – The Hidden Abuse of Non Borderlines Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is highly associated with verbal abuse, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, physical abuse, and/or domestic violence often suffered by those who are non-borderline. The propensity for abusiveness
Borderlines Don’t & Won’t Love You or Attach To You
Borderlines Don’t & Won’t Love You or Attach To You especially if untreated or not substantially treated over years. People with the trauma response the APA pathologizes and stigmatizes as Borderline Personality, have arrested early childhood development. People with BPD
BPD Emotional Radioactivity is Codependent Kryptonite
People with Borderline Personality or NPD are codependent kryptonite. They continue to hurt you where your inner child lives inside of you. They don’t consciously (more w/BPD) do this on purpose but it happens. Codependents need to focus on the
Have BPD? Transference in Therapy – What You Need To Know
For many with Borderline Personality working hard in therapy and building trust with a therapist is not an easy journey or process. To then, when you trust enough, to get to transference, where a therapist needs to meet you with
Borderline Personality Recovery – Find The Real You
People with BPD can recover. No one can save you or rescue you but you can – choose to get into therapy and stick with it. Psychiatry’s narrative and younger generations of people with BPD being told they cannot recover
BPD Triggers are Gateways To Recovery
Many with Borderline Personality spend much of their lives running and hiding from triggers. Some refuse therapy. Others struggle to engage it. Why? Because of the fear of the feelings – painful, scary overwhelming feelings that trigger them to emotional
Key To Recovery After a Borderline or Narcissist
Many disagree as to what an Empath is versus a Codependent. Many psychologists note that empaths have codependency and are codependents. Some will say empaths have codependent tendencies. This debate back and forth really misses the central point. That is,
