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BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting

A commenter asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or similar or are they different. Great question. For some people your person with (most often quiet) BPD may well have silent treatment patterns and this is

A.J. Mahari September 21, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know Betrayal or trauma bonding with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder is how these relationships between Borderlines and Codependents dysfunction. It’s why they are so painful. It’s why they are

A.J. Mahari September 17, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull

BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of the Approach Avoidance Conflict in BPD – It’s the push-pull “get-away closer” that cannot

A.J. Mahari September 1, 2023September 1, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying?

5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying? 5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. People with Borderline Personality – BPD – lie pervasively and often for so many

A.J. Mahari August 22, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

BPD Breakup The Emptiness of BPD Relationship Recycling Trauma Bonded Situationships

BPD Breakup The Emptiness of BPD Relationship Recycling Trauma Bonded Situationships BPD Relationship Breakups and the emptiness of recycling T Bond Relationships increases your codependency and only worsens how you actually feel. These relationships with people with the patterns of

A.J. Mahari May 31, 2023 Codependency, Codependency Recovery, Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

Borderlines Use You

People untreated with Borderline Personality Disorder use people. Many may be aware of this and many more are likely not aware consciously. They are not emotionally capable of loving you, receiving you love or attaching to you. Borderlines are often

A.J. Mahari April 29, 2023April 29, 2023 BPD Breakup, Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

Borderline Red Herring Fallacy

The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is experienced by anyone close to a person with Borderline Personality. Especially BPD partners, on/off recycling relationships, BPD Hoovers or your reverse hoovers. What does the Borderline Red Herring Fallacy have to do with Codependents?

A.J. Mahari March 4, 2023March 4, 2023 Borderline Personality, Borderlines and Codependents, BPD Relationships Breakups, Codependency No Comments Read more

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  • BPD Suicides on the Rise Due to Lack of Accessible Treatment Around the World
  • Petulant BPD Rage Uses You and The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline
  • BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex’s Self-Deceptive Reverse Hoovers
  • The Borderline Set Up Hoover
  • Why Don’t Borderlines Just Get It?
  • BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting
  • Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know
  • BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination – Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
  • Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want – Get It (You) Then Don’t Want It (You) Anymore
  • BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
  • Borderline Idealization Is Not Real Love
  • BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
  • 5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying?
  • BPD Betrayal Means Can’t Be Friends & No Contact Needs To Be For Life
  • Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships

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