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Why Don’t Borderlines Just Get It?

Why don’t borderlines just get it, how to have their own boundaries and understand their feelings even with initial therapy can’t they just get it? Are you falsely hoping someone in your life with untreated BPD just get it? What

A.J. Mahari October 9, 2023October 9, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know Betrayal or trauma bonding with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder is how these relationships between Borderlines and Codependents dysfunction. It’s why they are so painful. It’s why they are

A.J. Mahari September 17, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination – Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination – Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster BPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced relationship and it is also unconsciously for both the Borderline and the person dating or in love

A.J. Mahari September 15, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying?

5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying? 5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. People with Borderline Personality – BPD – lie pervasively and often for so many

A.J. Mahari August 22, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond

BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond BPD relationship recycling between people with BPD and their partner/ex-partner person with Codependency getting the BPD Ex back are really recycling the core trauma bond that is

A.J. Mahari May 10, 2023May 10, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD?

BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD About Your Feelings or Needs? In BPD relationships is there ever a good time to talk to the person with BPD who is your partner (or was – or on/off)

A.J. Mahari May 6, 2023May 6, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup Partner Or Ex Partner

People with Borderline Personality Disorder, especially untreated, often get into trauma bonded relationships with non-borderlines more often than not who have Codependency. The beginning of the relationship is amazing! The person with BPD idealizes you, mirrors you, and from their

A.J. Mahari April 29, 2023April 29, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more

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After your session(s) purchase you will receive a receipt from PayPal and I will also receive a copy. Your next step is to click on the link below and schedule your session (or sessions) and until you schedule you will not receive any communication from me. Upon scheduling you will receive a confirmation email and 24-48 hours ahead of the day/time you scheduled for you will receive via email a Zoom Session Link from me.

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Recent Posts

  • The Borderline Set Up Hoover
  • Why Don’t Borderlines Just Get It?
  • BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting
  • Trauma Bonding With a Borderline – What Codependents Need To Know
  • BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination – Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
  • Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want – Get It (You) Then Don’t Want It (You) Anymore
  • BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
  • Borderline Idealization Is Not Real Love
  • BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
  • 5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying?
  • BPD Betrayal Means Can’t Be Friends & No Contact Needs To Be For Life
  • Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships
  • BPD Breakup The Emptiness of BPD Relationship Recycling Trauma Bonded Situationships
  • BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
  • BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD?

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After your session(s) purchase you will receive a receipt from PayPal and I will receive a copy. Your next step is to click on the link below and schedule your session (or sessions) and until you schedule you will not receive any communication from me. Upon scheduling you will receive a confirmation email and 24-48 hours ahead of the day/time you scheduled for you will receive via email a Zoom Session Link from me.

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