Often those who are close to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder are themselves in a great deal of pain. They are often confused as to what is actually going on with the person with BPD. Many non borderlines do not realize the emotional danger and damage that they can be incurring on the other side of someone with BPD until they are so confused they feel as if they don't have a clue what to do.
If you love or have loved someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and you aren't sure what you need to do, you are confused and/or in a great deal of pain what can you do? What should you do? The place to start is really with Radical Acceptance.
It is only through the surrender to that which we cannot control that we can win our own freedom.
A.J. Mahari is a Life Coach who, among other things, specializes in working with those with BPD and non borderlines. A.J. has 5 years experience as a Life Coach and has worked with hundreds of clients from all over the world.