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With 32 years of experience working with people in recovery and healing from trauma bonded relationships (of any type) with a person with Borderline Personality or Narcissistic Personality Disorder or co-morbidly both, A.J. Mahari, can help you to let go, grieve, gain clarity and guide you on the path of this most painful, difficult, challenging and rewarding journey so that you will not have another relationship with a Cluster B person. Learn how to heal in a process that will also help you to change and heal yourself so that going forward in your life you can find a healthy and rewarding mutual,loving, significant other relationship as well as friendships and effective business relationships.

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To purchase and book a session or sessions with A.J. Mahari click HERE

Email A.J. using this site’s Contact Form to sign-up for notification of A.J’s New Ebooks and Courses  coming soon and receive a discount on each new Ebook or Course.

A.J. Mahari is a trauma recovery specialist with 32 years of experience working with people who have been in any relationship type with a person with Borderline Personality or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

A.J. uses an eclectic approach to helping clients process, learn and understand more about those with BPD or NPD, while focusing on yourself too. A.J. understands that her clients need to talk a lot about what they have been through. What happened. What is so confusing. All the pain and heartache and all the doubts and and self-recriminations. A.J. is a patient listener who understands that your recovery after a relationship (of any type) with a Borderline or Narcissist is multi-layered and that as you begin your healing journey you need to talk about the person with BPD or NPD or co-morbidly both as you process and begin, in your own time, to focus more on yourself.

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To purchase and book a session or sessions with A.J. Mahari click HERE

Email A.J. using this site’s Contact Form to sign-up for notification of A.J’s New Ebooks and Courses  coming soon and receive a discount on each new Ebook or Course.

A.J. can help you process and understand the following and much more:

  • why it is so hard to decide whether to stay or go
  • what is keeping you blocked from leaving
  • why are you fighting so hard for a relationship that continues to traumatize you
  • what should I do? Exploring this and coming to your own decision
  • how to break the trauma bond and heal and why you got hooked into a trauma bond
  • break free from the unhealthy family of origin patterns of codependent relating
  • self-care, self-esteem, self-worth
  • how to really know yourself and like and love yourself first
  • identify and implement boundaries
  • what does it really mean when you have too much empathy for an abuser?
  • how this trauma bonded relationship has its roots in your childhood
  • inner child healing
  • family of origin healing
  • self differentiation
  • challenge, re-frame and heal negative core beliefs
  • finding self again
  • starting over
  • CPTSD recovery
  • understanding the Borderline or Narcissist enough to let go of needing to know more
  • how to stop avoiding your own pain and cope through healing it
  • processing grief and coping effectively
  • complicated and complex grief
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