Codependent Collusion & Self-Abandonment in and after a relationship with a person with Borderline Personality means recovery is two-pronged. On one level you need to heal from the relationship with the person with BPD. You also need to get into your own healing and recovery journey from Codependency. I help people to do both in a comprehensive recovery process.
Codependency is an unhealthy relationship to and with self that results from childhood adverse experience or trauma. People with Codependency trauma bond with a loved one with BPD.
People with Codependency end up in collusion with a person with BPD by abandoning self and focusing on and trying to rescue the borderline. Codependents often are not in touch with and/or afraid of their own emotions and stay in that zone of trying to rescue, fix, be the hero to the borderline, unconsciously to avoid one’s own pain.
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