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Borderline Induced Conversations – When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents

Borderline Induced Conversations – When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents     Listen to “Borderline Induced Conversations – When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, October 11, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari October 12, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception

Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception     Listen to “Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, October 11, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari October 11, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

The Invisible Borderline Man – Why Women Don’t See Him Coming

The Invisible Borderline Man – Why Women Don’t See Him Coming   Listen to “The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming” on Spreaker.   ©A.J. Mahari, September 20, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari September 20, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Borderline Man Unmasked

Borderline Man Unmasked     Listen to “Borderline Man Unmasked” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, September 15, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari September 15, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

The Broken BPD Man Fantasy

The Broken BPD Man Fantasy   Listen to “The Broken BPD Man Fantasy” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, September 15, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari September 15, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Destroys Relationships

Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Destroys Relationships Quiet BPD 10 reasons it destroys relationships. Often people in a relationship with someone with Quiet BPD, also known as the Discouraged BPD Subtype, it can take quite a while to understand

A.J. Mahari September 8, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale

BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTale What starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why relationships with someone with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

A.J. Mahari August 24, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles

Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles Are you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when it’s hurting you? This Codependency Inside Out, surviving cluster B episode explores the 5 trauma-rooted codependent hooks

A.J. Mahari August 24, 2025 Codependence, Codependence In Relationships w/ Personality Disordered, Codependency, Codependency Recovery, Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

BPD Frustration Intolerance

BPD Frustration Intolerance   Listen to “BPD Frustration Intolerance” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, August 17, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 18, 2025August 18, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

7 ‘Codependency Doesn’t Exist’ Myths Debunked

7 ‘Codependency Doesn’t Exist’ Myths Debunked     Listen to “7 'Codependency Doesn't Exist' Myths Debunked” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, August 17, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 17, 2025 Codependence, Codependency, Codependency Recovery No Comments Read more

BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are *Unseen* – BPD “Bad Object” Emotional Mug Shot of You

BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are *Unseen*             BPD “Bad Object” Emotional Mug Shot of You   Listen to “BPD Mirror Holds No Internal Reflection You are Unseen” on Spreaker.   © A.J.

A.J. Mahari August 10, 2025August 10, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

The BPD Love Paradox

The BPD Love Paradox     Listen to “The BPD Love Paradox” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, August 7, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 7, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Are Stuck

The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Are Stuck     Listen to “The BPD Fantasy Why Codependents Feel Stuck” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari –  August 5, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 5, 2025 Codependence In Relationships w/ Personality Disordered, Codependency, Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication

BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication     Listen to “BPD Fragmented Self Blocks Connection and Communication” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, August 2, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 3, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Is Codependency Really an Addiction?

Is Codependency Really an Addiction?     Listen to “Is Codependency Really An Addiction?” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari, July 31, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 3, 2025 Codependency No Comments Read more

BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses

BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic and BPD Alloplastic Defenses     Listen to “BPD Ego Syntonic vs Ego Dystonic & BPD Alloplastic Defenses” on Spreaker.   © A.J. Mahari – July 21, 2025. All rights reserved.  

A.J. Mahari August 3, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

Borderline Persecutory Object – Invisible Partners & Exes

BPD Persecutory Object – Invisible Partners and Exes     Listen to “Borderline Persecutory Object Invisible Partners and Exes” on Spreaker. copyright A.J. Mahari July 18, 2025 – All rights reserved.

A.J. Mahari August 3, 2025August 3, 2025 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

BPD Suicides on the Rise Due to Lack of Accessible Treatment Around the World

BPD Suicides on the Rise Due to Lack of Accessible Treatment Around the World Copyright A.J. Mahari September 8, 2017 – All rights reserved (aside from article I shared some information from)

A.J. Mahari July 9, 2025 Personal Development No Comments Read more

Petulant BPD Rage Uses You and The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline

Petulant Borderlines use you when they rage at you. A borderline rage does make them feel better at your expense. They are often not aware of what is happening for your or how you are affected by them. Self-awareness deficits

A.J. Mahari March 3, 2024March 3, 2024 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup, Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups No Comments Read more

BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex’s Self-Deceptive Reverse Hoovers

BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex’s Self-Deceptive Reverse Hoovers BPD deceptive hoovers are what hoovers are, deceptive. BPD Ex’s reverse hoovers are often self-deceptive. BPD hoovers or Ex’s reverse hoovers only lead to more of the same – try again,

A.J. Mahari December 26, 2023 Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup No Comments Read more
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