A commenter asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or similar or are they different. Great question. For some people your person with (most often quiet) BPD may well have silent treatment patterns and this is
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of the Approach Avoidance Conflict in BPD – It’s the push-pull “get-away closer” that cannot
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond BPD relationship recycling between people with BPD and their partner/ex-partner person with Codependency getting the BPD Ex back are really recycling the core trauma bond that is
Surviving a BPD Relationship Breakup Partner Or Ex Partner
People with Borderline Personality Disorder, especially untreated, often get into trauma bonded relationships with non-borderlines more often than not who have Codependency. The beginning of the relationship is amazing! The person with BPD idealizes you, mirrors you, and from their
Borderline Forever Ammunition & Codependent Repetition Compulsions in Trauma Bonds
What is Borderline Forever Ammunition? It wounds and it is abuse. Toxic Relationships that are Trauma Bonds. Codependent Repetition Compulsions keep you in the double bind no-win trap of self-abandonment. Borderline Forever Ammunition is especially true for untreated borderlines. Codependent
BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start – The Unconscious Set Up
BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start The Unconscious Set Up is in play from the very beginning o BPD Relationships as they begin and start to end based on the core wound in childhood. Unbeknownst to untreated people
BPD Relationships Hypersexuality of BPD Women is The Trap of Sex Addiction In the Trauma Bond For Men
You meet her, the woman with Borderline Personality, she is amazing, things happen quickly. Sex and relating are intense. The Borderline hypersexual woman. Everything is just so great to the point of what comes next, in time, that it you
Connect To Self – Codependency Recovery
Codependency has its roots in childhood. It is deep. It is painful. It is an unhealthy relational pattern. Codependency is to varying degrees is a loss of self, a lack of self love, in childhood, emotionally. In response to adverse
Borderline Entitlement | Internal Split Projected Out
Borderline Entitlement Internal Original Split Projected Out leaves so many feeling blamed and shamed by someone with BPD in their lives as if how the person with BPD abused and/or manipulate you is how you treated them. People with Borderline
Borderlines Intensity and Urge to Merge
It is common for many with Borderline Personality (untreated people with BPD or those in denial) to not only have intense emotions, intense and frequent mood shifts, but also for them to engage others in ways that lower or push
Why BPD Narrative Sets Up Loved Ones – Devaluation Ends Relationships
The narrative of many people with Borderline Personality sets up loved ones – validate – understand – BPD splitting – Devaluation ends relationships. People with BPD are (often subconsciously) seeking rescue. They don’t see you, they don’t attach to you.
