BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex’s Self-Deceptive Reverse Hoovers BPD deceptive hoovers are what hoovers are, deceptive. BPD Ex’s reverse hoovers are often self-deceptive. BPD hoovers or Ex’s reverse hoovers only lead to more of the same – try again,
Why Don’t Borderlines Just Get It?
Why don’t borderlines just get it, how to have their own boundaries and understand their feelings even with initial therapy can’t they just get it? Are you falsely hoping someone in your life with untreated BPD just get it? What
BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles – “Get-Away Closer” BPD Push/Pull
BPD idealization is not as real as BPD devaluation. Both result from the core relational impairment of the Approach Avoidance Conflict in BPD – It’s the push-pull “get-away closer” that cannot and will not ever change until and unless each
5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying?
5 Reasons For BPD Lying That Destroys Relationships – Is There Biology To BPD Lying? 5 reasons (Root Causes) that explains why people with BPD lie. People with Borderline Personality – BPD – lie pervasively and often for so many
BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD?
BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD About Your Feelings or Needs? In BPD relationships is there ever a good time to talk to the person with BPD who is your partner (or was – or on/off)
Borderline or Narcissist Mother Contrast & Comparison – How They Wound Us
Borderline or Narcissist Mother Contrast & Comparison – How They Wound Us Having been the child of a Borderline or Narcissist mother means you have experienced childhood trauma. As the adult child of a Borderline or Narcissist mother the trauma
Codependency Is Rooted In Childhood – Not Your Fault
Codependency is Rooted in Childhood – It’s Not Your Fault – Why you have Codependency is not your fault because nothing is ever a child’s fault. It is your responsibility now to get into therapy to heal and recover and
Does Your BPD Girlfriend Want Space? – Slow BPD Split to Devaluation and Ghosting | Now what?
When a BPD girlfriend or BPD Boyfriend wants space it is a slow split to devaluation and ghosting – Now what? What does this mean? Is it over? Is it a final discard? What is a slow split to devaluation
BPD Discard – Is This It a Final Discard?
Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend with suspected or diagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder? Have you been ghosted and/or discarded? Is it a final discard? How can you now? Listen to “BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go
BPD Lack of Emotional Intimacy
People, untreated, with Borderline Personality Disorder, cannot be emotionally intimate, in any relationship type, consistently, congruently, or age-appropriately. What is healthy emotional intimacy? Healthy emotional intimacy requires mutuality and reciprocity. It also requires the emotional intelligence and maturity to be
The Core of NPD & the Difference Between Overt & Covert Narcissists
What is at the heart or center of Narcissistic Personality Disorder? This central result of an intra-psychic narcissistic injury also reveals the core difference between overt and covert narcissists. © A.J. Mahari – All rights reserved (except quoted & noted
Reclaiming Self – BPD, NPD, ASPD Abuse Recovery
This is the at the centre of most of the pain and trauma of Narcissistic Abuse for those who are/have been victims or are on the path to or are now survivors. What is this? The need to reclaim the
Narcissistic Personality Disorder – Abuse in All Relationship Types
Narcissistic culture is breeding an epidemic of narcissism, yes, but, even more specifically here I am referring to the increasing epidemic of people with diagnosed or undiagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The reality of the exploding narcissistic culture that we all
Pet Loss and Grief – 7 Days Since My Cat Died
My beloved Calico Cat, Baylee, passed away, Wednesday December 21, 2016 at 3:30 pm. She had to be euthanized due to cancerous tumors. I am writing this blog one week exactly to the day and time that I lost Baylee.
Narcissists Never Apologize – Don’t go down the rabbit hole
People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) never apologize. Why is that? How many times have you been down tumbling painfully down the rabbit hole of trying to be seen and heard when you have had your feelings hurt or your
Co-Morbid Borderline Personality and Narcissistic Personality Disorders
Many people are diagnosed with and trying to live with or are seeking treatment for Borderline Personality (BPD). Many are diagnosed with and over-compensating to live with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Twenty-five percent of those diagnosed with BPD are also
Healing from Borderline Personality Narcissistic Personality Abuse – Loved Ones
Healing from the abuse of someone in your life with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a very painful process. Not as painful as being abused is, however. It is a necessary though so that your mental and
Are you A Victim With or Of Borderline Personality Narcissistic Personality and/or Codependence?
Are you a person with Borderline Personality Disorder, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, or loved one of someone with BPD or NPD, a Codependent and you feel like a victim? Are you a victim? Feeling like a victim equals suffering.
Self Awareness is An Inside Job
Self-awareness that gets us and keeps us attuned to our own inner conscious self-awareness cannot rely upon mirror neurons. We actually, in adulthood, though we may have learned a lot about cooperation from mirror neurons are not served by the
Dare To Work On The Shame Blocking Your Vulnerability
Vulnerability is a strength – not a weakness. You need to dare greatly in order to work through your shame and emotional pain to clear out that shame from your past and let in the empowering freedom and wholeheartedness of
